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We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.
- National Competition on Worries. - National Competition on Worries.
- We have special guests today. - We certainly do.
Please welcome, Han Go Eun.
(A true beauty, Han Go Eun)
Kim Sung Kyung.
(The straightforward entertainer, Kim Sung Kyung)
Jung Yong Hwa.
(The handsome vocalist, Jung Yong Hwa)
Hwang Kwang Hee.
(The popular star, Hwang Kwang Hee)
Go Eun, you recently got married.
I heard you have rarely left the house after you got married.
I stayed home a lot even before I got married.
But I'm staying at home even more than before.
What made you want to come on our show?
We heard that Yeong Ja invited you.
We go to the same bath house.
- We go there together. - A bath house.
I asked her to come on as our guest.
She was in the bath house when she asked me...
and I bumped into her. We were both naked.
(We saw each other naked.)
- Both of you were naked? - Yeong Ja.
- They were naked. - I watch Hello a lot. I'm a fan.
So when we met at the bath house, I said "I'm a fan of Hello,"
"please invite me on sometime."
She said, "Okay." Then, she called me three hours later.
Yeong Ja invited you on straight away.
I was happy to get her call.
You are a true fan of this programme.
- I enjoy it. - I've known her...
for many years. But I have never met her husband.
I heard that your husband is four years younger than you are.
- Really? - He is.
I heard that he is tall and handsome.
(She is married to a handsome man.)
To me,
- he is perfect. - I see.
- He is perfect? - I see.
What's the best thing about being married?
Let me think. First of all,
- I feel more confident. - That's right.
Marriage changed my life.
I don't suffer from insomnia any more.
You get more sleep now.
Yes.
- I used to sleep 3 to 4 hours. - Oh, my.
- Sung Kyung looks surprised. - I sleep a lot more now.
Do you sleep a lot?
- You seem to be the type. - Yes, I sleep a lot.
- How many hours do you sleep? - I sleep 8 to 9 hours a day.
If I sleep less than that, I get tired quickly.
(Sung Kyung needs a lot of sleep.)
- You're lucky. - Yes, she is.
I sleep because I don't have a lot of work.
To be honest,
I feel honoured just to be sitting here with these guests.
- You feel honoured? - Don't say that.
I'm not a famous celebrity like they are.
You sleep eight hours. That makes you a star here.
You don't have to be a super famous celebrity to be here.
She sleeps the most here.
- It means you've become a success. - I also don't sleep a lot.
Five hours of sleep is enough.
- Five hours? - What about you, Kwang Hee?
- I usually sleep six hours. - I see, six hours.
You sleep the most.
- You are a sleeping star. - Nobody can sleep that much.
- That's true. - She's the queen.
- Who sleeps eight hours these days? - I know, right?
- She has become successful. - She should be grateful for that.
- She should be happy. - Yes.
We heard that Yong Hwa and Kwang Hee are very close.
We are, but...
I don't know how we became close.
- Do you know? - I...
He kept telling everyone that we are good friends.
He hypnotised you.
- You were brainwashed. - Yes. He brainwashed me.
Is that how you make friends?
Let me explain. I debuted later than him.
I wanted to become popular as quickly as possible.
I thought people might like me more, if I told them we are close.
That's how we became friends.
Do you have any more friends like that?
- Yong Hwa. - Okay.
- Lee Joon. - Okay.
- G-Dragon. - I see.
We sang a song together, remember? Tae Yang was with us, too.
- I know. - You weren't friends before that?
- Sorry? - You weren't friends before that?
- No, we weren't.
I started telling people that I'm close to G-Dragon,
it became reality. What I said came true.
You need to keep saying what you want to have in real life.
Is there anyone else you want to be friends with these days?
- Kim Soo Hyun. - You want to be friends with him?
- Then say something here. - Kim Soo Hyun.
- How about Song Joong Ki?
- Yes, Song Joong Ki. - Okay.
Don't call them by their full names.
You want to look like you're friends with them.
We'll ask you again. Whom do you want to be friends in the future?
- Joong Ki. - Okay.
- Soo Hyun. - Okay.
- What about Lee Min Ho? - Yes, Min Ho.
Yes, Min Ho. Not, Lee Min Ho.
I'll come back again with them in the near future.
(I'll come back again with them.)
That will be great.
- I think he will. - I will bring them on the show.
- I trust him. - Thank you.
Yong Hwa, you're here as Kwang Hee's friend, right?
(Did Kwang Hee invite Yong Hwa?)
- Yes. I'm here because of him. - Isn't that true?
We heard CNBLUE has released a new song.
(CNBLUE has released a new song.)
Wait a minute, everyone.
Let me say this first.
CNBLUE is a group...
- and you are here alone, - Right.
so you don't need to sing your new song here today.
- I want to listen to it. - Pardon?
- Are you fan of CNBLUE? - Go Eun wants to hear the song.
(She has wit.)
I'm not here to promote my song but she wants to hear it.
- That's true. - There's also a mic here.
(I've prepared a mic.)
- Where did this come from? - I put it there.
Were you always this pretty?
("You're So Fine" by CNBLUE)
You don't know
(CNBLUE has a refreshing sound.)
(The lyrics are memorable.)
(Everyone has been entranced by the melody.)
- This is my new song. - Wow.
(He is a good singer.)
- He sings really well. - He's Kwang Hee's friend, remember?
How can you sing so well?
- What do you mean? - What?
I've never sung a song live before.
Let me ask the four of you a question.
Have you ever had a moment when you thought you look so fine?
In my case,
I was prettier when I was younger.
- When you were younger? - I heard that you were very pretty.
- When I was younger, - Around what age?
people told me that I was prettier than my sister.
- Your sister, Kim Sung Ryoung? - Yes.
- When you were 2 or 3 years old. - When you were only 3 months old.
- Or maybe two months old. - Anyway,
I was told that I looked pretty.
We have a picture of her.
- She is pretty in that picture. - What a pretty girl.
You were prettier than your sister.
- You were beautiful. - She's cute.
- She is right. - She was pretty.
You were a pretty girl.
She was prettier than her sister.
Look at that picture. Her sister is pretty.
(Is it important to be prettier than your sister?)
- You are being mean. - I think her sister is prettier.
(Both of them are pretty.)
- Both of them are pretty. - They are.
What about you?
When do you feel that you're attractive, Kwang Hee?
Usually three months after I have a Botox injection.
- Seriously? - My face looks better.
- Why are you surprised? - What's this?
When was this photo taken?
It was a few days after I got a Botox injection.
- You're not attractive? - I don't look natural enough.
- My make-up looks great. - I can't tell the difference.
(Can you tell?)
I still can't tell the difference.
(He looks the same.)
- What about you, Yong Hwa? - I think I look the best when...
I'm sweating during a performance.
(When I'm sweating during a performance.)
That's awesome.
(He is attractive.)
Singers look great when they are on stage.
(He looks even more handsome.)
Men who work hard are attractive.
"Meat Lover" won...
for the fourth time last week.
I wonder if this team will win...
- again this week, too. - We have interesting stories today.
We will give the winner...
- a 1,000-dollar gift certificate. - Yes.
We have three worries today.
Show us the keywords please.
("Find My Husband", "I Can't Stand it!", "Stop It!")
We'll start with "Find My Husband".
Hello, I'm a housewife of 4 years who lives in Miryang.
Before we got married, my husband used to tell me this.
"Honey, I'll work hard and make you the happiest woman in the world."
"Do you trust me?"
But instead, I'm the loneliest woman in the world.
He works way too hard. He loves his work.
- I'm always alone at home. - He is a workaholic.
- He's a workaholic. - I begged him...
for days to eat out.
"I'm so happy to eat out with you."
"This is so delicious. Open wide."
"Hello? Yes."
"Are you at the store?"
"I'll be right there. I have a customer waiting."
"I have to go now. Help yourself."
So I was all alone at the restaurant and ate alone.
"Honey, you do know today is my mother's birthday, right?"
"All the family member will get together to celebrate her birthday."
"I have some work to do. Go on ahead."
It's his mother-in-law's birthday?
"Honey, can you come to my grandmother's 80th birthday party?"
"I can't! I have to work."
"How many time do I have to tell you?"
- "Go away." - It's her grandmother's birthday.
Why did he marry me?
The real problem is that...
my husband screams while washing his face or...
eating food or...
sleeping.
- Why? - Why does he do that?
- His nose bleeds all the time. - I see. He works too much.
- He is overworking. - I might become a widow soon.
Is this a happy marriage?
(Is this a happy marriage?)
It was a housewife's worry about her workaholic husband.
Please come out.
(Who is this wife that worries about her workaholic husband?)
(Kwon Bo Ra)
Gosh.
Are you okay? Are you hurt?
What did she just do?
No one has done that before.
Maybe the slide wasn't slippery. Make it slippery.
Yong Hwa and Kwang Hee, help her out.
- Take her hands. - She ran down the slide.
- Choose the person you like. - Yes, choose one.
Choose.
(She chose Kwang Hee.)
He is noisy.
Did you see that, Yong Hwa?
(He is screeching and dancing out of happiness.)
- He sounds like a monkey. - I'm more popular.
Okay, we got it. Go back to your seat.
No matter what era we live in, good people are still good.
- That's right. - Please introduce yourself.
Hello. I'm Kwon Bo Ra, a housewife from Miryang.
Welcome.
There are many people...
who are workaholic these days.
But the fact that you are here means you're seriously worried about...
your husband. Do you think your husband has a problem?
- Yes, he's a terrible workaholic. - I see.
Every single day,
he goes to work and comes home really late.
- Even on Sundays? - Yes.
- He comes back around 1am. - One in the morning?
Sometimes, he doesn't come home.
- He doesn't come home? - He doesn't come home?
- Because he is working? - Yes.
- Are you sure he was working? - I know what you mean.
- It was suspicious, too. - Okay.
I even thought he had another wife.
- Is it that bad? - That's understandable.
About a month ago, I secretly followed him.
- Did you really? - Seriously?
Yes, I was suspicious.
But I saw him going to work.
Did you go inside the store?
Yes, I did.
She went inside.
I opened the door but he didn't even realise that I was there.
What kind of work does he do?
He repairs leather.
He makes bags or wallets.
Why is he so busy?
- I guess he gets many orders. - Yes, he does.
He gets many orders and pays a lot of attention to his work.
- Does he work slowly? - Not really.
Tell us everything you want to get off of your chest.
- I've been married for four years. - Okay.
We never been on a date for the past four years.
- Really? - We haven't been to the movies.
Does that mean you never ate out together?
- That's right. - Is that possible?
I begged him to eat out with me one day.
- We read that from your letter. - Yes, we ate out on that day.
- But he left early due to work. - Yes.
What else?
November 2nd is my birthday and our wedding anniversary.
- Yes, it's on the same day, - Birthday and wedding anniversary?
but we didn't do anything.
- Was he working? - Yes.
One day, I begged him...
- to go on a trip for two nights. - Okay.
- We went to Gangwon Province. - You did go on a trip.
You have no idea. I begged for months.
Don't get mad at me.
I thought you never went on a trip with your husband.
- That was the only time. - Okay.
But on the way there, he looked really unhappy.
- He didn't even talk. - Okay.
When he talked, it was always about his work.
I was so angry that...
I ended up telling him to go back home.
- You said that? - Yes.
When he heard me say that, he finally smiled and said,
"That's good. I just came up with an idea for my work."
(That's good. I have to work.)
- On the way to Gangwon Province? - No, we had arrived.
- Really? That's incredible. - So we drove back home right away.
It was supposed to be for two nights.
He made unhappy because he wanted to go back to work?
- This is unbelievable. - It was meant to be for two nights,
but they came home after a few hours.
- Yes. - What about when you were dating?
I'm sure you went on a lot of dates with him.
Even then, he was busy working.
- Even when you were dating? - Yes. I found that attractive.
I thought that he would try to make me happy.
- You were blinded by love. - Yes.
People often fall in love and break up...
for the same reason.
- Really? - Yes, that's what I heard.
- That makes sense. - I agree with that.
He promised me that he would...
- make me happy. - But the reality was different.
Since he's not home, I do the house chores alone.
- I felt like I became his maid. - I see.
Although he promised her that he would make her happy,
but he hasn't kept his word.
Let's talk to her husband.
Where are you?
- Hello. - Hello.
He is young.
Don't you have to work today?
Honestly, I do have work to do. I'm very worried.
- You are worried? - My wife asked me to come here.
She doesn't understand me.
So I came on to tell my side.
- You want to tell us your side? - Why do you work so much though?
Tell us. Why are you so busy?
My job requires accuracy and persistence.
The more time you put in, the better the quality.
It's like a promise to my customers.
So it's important for me to make high-quality goods.
- It has to be high-quality. - I see.
But during your four years of marriage,
you didn't take her to the movies at all. Isn't that too much?
- I feel like it's a waste of time. - Really?
She always begs me to go on a date with her.
She tells me who went where for a date and so on.
But I didn't get married with her to go on a date.
I got married because I wanted to live with her.
(I got married because I wanted to live with her.)
- To live together. - Then,
what's your definition of living together?
- That's a good question. - What do you mean by that?
It's living together in the same house.
- Is that your definition? - Yes.
But you're living apart. You don't come home.
It feels like you're sharing the same address. You're not a couple.
They're only sharing the same address.
It's like you are the owner and she has a lease on your house.
Let me ask him this, too.
What does anniversary mean to you?
She said you never celebrated your anniversary for four years.
Honestly, I can't understand why people celebrate anniversaries.
For me, it's just another weekday.
A weekday is a normal day but...
- a birthday happens once a year. - Yes.
- In other words, - Yes, it's once a year. But...
it happens every year. What's so special about it?
Putting aside your opinions,
your wife feels sad. That's what matters.
This is about making someone you love happy.
Don't you want to make her happy?
- I've never thought about that. - You said you got married...
to stay with her. But you don't care about her feelings?
What about the parents' birthday?
They gave birth to you. They raised you.
Since you don't care about birthdays,
does that mean you can skip their birthdays, too?
My wife takes care of our parents' birthday.
(My wife takes care of our parents' birthday.)
- Is that why you married her? - Oh, dear.
- Is that what a wife is for? - It's terrible.
Let's think about this.
- Let's think about this. - Everyone,
please calm down.
Some of the audience cursed at you.
Someone just said, "Kill him." I don't think they'll edit that out.
(Kill him.)
- Calm down. - Don't lose your temper.
On holidays, we prepare the holiday food, right?
I went to my mother-in-law's place alone to help her with that.
- I felt lonely to be there alone. - Of course.
I thought she would understand my situation.
I was busy working. It's not like I was wasting time.
I couldn't join her that day because of my work.
I don't like wasting my time.
I want to see how good his works are.
Why do you work so hard?
- There must be a reason. - I know, right?
There must be a reason.
I was poor when I was a child.
I never had enough food.
You look well fed now.
Look.
(He has got a fat belly.)
(We can tell how successful he is.)
That was hilarious.
Keep going.
When I was in middle school, I saw...
a mother and her son walking in front of me.
This kid was eating a hot dog but he dropped it on the street.
What was he eating?
- A hot dog. - The kid was eating a hot dog.
The mother told him to throw it away.
But I secretly picked it up and ate it. It's a vivid memory.
I don't want that to happen to my own family.
We all did that when we were young.
Wait.
He did pick it up and eat it.
Did you finish the hot dog? Or did you throw it away?
- I finished it. - Did you?
Have you saved a lot?
- Now? - You've been working hard.
Compared to other people around my age,
- I think I have saved a lot. - Has he saved a lot?
Not really.
- Why not? - Once he starts working...
on a project, it takes about 4 to 5 days to finish.
- But if he doesn't like the result, - Yes.
he doesn't charge the customer.
- He doesn't charge the customer? - Pardon?
Could you please explain this?
- He is a perfectionist. - Let me explain.
If I put myself in my customers' shoes,
won't they prefer to have a perfectly done product?
So if the products aren't good enough I don't charge them.
He's not earning enough after those hardworking time.
Then what's the point of your wife waiting for you days and nights?
- Right? - But...
that doesn't mean that...
we are poor and suffering from hunger.
My reputation matters more.
- If your customers... - Even if you take a day off for...
her birthday or your wedding anniversary,
it won't have a big impact on your income.
For me, our wedding anniversary isn't that important.
- Pardon me but... - It's something that we do...
- every year. - Pardon me.
You can say the same thing about customers.
- That's not true. - They come every day.
(That's right.)
You shouldn't think that way.
You will always have customers.
Don't you listen to your customers' complaints?
Then, why don't you listen to your wife's complaints?
(Why doesn't he listen to his wife's complaints?)
- He ignores her complaints. - That's right.
You treat her differently.
This is what I think after listening to her husband.
Due to the trauma he had with the hot dog...
(Hot dog trauma)
Hot dog trauma.
- It sounds like a dissertation. - Hot dog trauma.
- A dissertation? - It sounds cool.
I think this trauma has made him...
self-centred.
I think his satisfaction is the most important thing for him.
It seems like his opinions matter more to him than what...
- other people think or say. - I have a question.
You keep saying things only from your perspective.
In that case, what have you done...
for your wife?
I think the biggest thing is that she has someone on her side.
- I am there for her. - Still...
- Is that true? - She says she's lonelier now.
It feels like I don't have a husband.
I don't think you are on her side.
She's here because she thinks you aren't there for her.
The parents of the husband are here,
so let's meet them. Hello, it's nice to meet you.
It's nice to meet you.
(Parents-in-law)
Is it true that your son works and doesn't attend family events?
He says he's too busy and doesn't have time.
We only get to see him...
when we visit him at his shop.
What about you, Ma'am? You must be worried about him, too.
Yes, I'm worried about him.
- He lives about 5 minutes away. - Five minutes?
- He lives quite close. - That's close.
- Does he live that close? - Even then...
- His parents' house? - Yes.
Excuse me, Sir.
Sons usually take after their fathers.
Are you the same? Do you agree with your son?
My wife is more important.
Who does your son take after?
Is it the Father or the Mother?
I think he takes after my wife. You can ask her.
(I think he takes after my wife. You can ask her.)
I used to be a workaholic as well.
- He takes after her. - Yes.
- How are you two similar? - We've never been to Jeju Island.
However, I regret having lived that way,
so I have told my son to enjoy life...
many times.
He still doesn't listen to me.
He refuses to listen.
While she was talking, there was someone...
who seemed to be in a bad mood.
The person with the hat on seems to be in a bad mood.
- Maybe that's the way he looks. - Can you introduce yourself?
- Hello. - Look, he's smiling.
- I am Bo Ra's brother. - I see.
Are you suddenly happy now that you're on camera?
- You looked angry. - It was the expression on his face.
Were you in a bad mood?
This is the first time seeing my brother-in-law...
since my wedding last September.
(It's his first time seeing him since his wedding.)
- This is your first time? - What about the holidays?
No. We had our grandmother's 80th birthday party recently,
and my sister came alone.
I asked her about her husband, and she said he was busy with work.
- He should have... - He should have called.
- called me at least. - Of course.
He didn't even call at all.
I get embarrassed congratulating someone on the phone.
- Since you're not used to it. - My wife can congratulate her.
- Do I have to do it too? - Wait.
- How old are you? - I turned 27 this year.
You are younger than me.
- This is your fault. - It is your fault.
(Angry men)
You are younger than them.
- Be nicer to your wife. - That's right.
What kind of an accent is that?
You sound weird too.
What kind of an accent is that?
Let's talk to the brother.
I bet you have something you'd like to say to the husband.
Say something now since you don't know when...
- you'll see him again. - You won't have this chance again.
You tell him what he should do.
Scold your brother-in-law.
- Tell him off. - Kwang Hee.
- Please be quiet. - Okay.
(Okay)
Please say something to him.
My sister usually doesn't complain and keeps things to herself.
We went for a drink together and she said she was having a hard time.
I felt sad when I heard her say that.
I hope you will treat my sister a little better from now on.
(Please don't make my sister sad.)
There isn't much more to say than that.
How well do you treat your family?
I treat my wife well.
- Do you celebrate your anniversary? - Yes.
- Are you bragging? - How?
Can we ask your wife?
- Excuse me. - She's not my wife.
- That's not your wife?
She was looking at him.
- That wasn't his wife. - No, she wasn't his wife.
(They shouldn't pair people up like that.)
When is your wife's birthday?
It's January 5th.
When is your wedding anniversary?
- It's September 5th. - They got married...
- in September. - When was your last kiss?
We kissed yesterday.
- That's nice. - When was your last kiss?
(What about the guest?)
Before we got married.
- Really? - Is that true?
- Really? - No way.
- That was when they last kissed? - How could that be?
- Is that true? - There are times you skip kissing.
- I understand. - But kissing...
There are things you shouldn't skip.
Are you originally from Miryang or did you move after getting married?
- I moved after getting married. - Where are you from originally?
- I am from Changwon. - Changwon?
- What about your friends? - They're all back in Changwon.
- You must be lonely. - Yes.
When my friends and I plan a gathering, I always go alone.
You go out alone?
Aren't you meant to bring your husband?
The woman next to the brother is Bo Ra's friend.
- I see. - It's nice to meet you.
- Hello. - Hello.
How did you feel when we mistook you for his wife?
I didn't feel bad.
- Isn't your boyfriend on your left? - He's my husband.
(Ta-da)
Her husband looks like Lee Dae Ho.
What is going on?
Does she really come out alone?
We often have gatherings with our husbands,
- but she always comes alone. - Always?
We often wonder whether...
- her husband actually exists. - Gosh.
When did you feel especially bad for her?
Last year, my husband and I went to see cherry blossoms.
I told her to go see it with her husband.
She told me she couldn't go with him because he was too busy.
That's why the three of us went together because she wanted to go.
- The three of you? - Wasn't that uncomfortable?
- We listened to your wife's friend. - Yes.
- What do you think? - It was because of work.
People can play or work depending on what they want.
Your wife wants to spend time with you.
- Right now... - I want to work instead.
It's like saying, "Which came first, the chicken or the egg?"
Can you show us some of your work...
since you are so proud of it?
- Can you show us? - I will show you.
- He must work really hard. - Please come out.
(This is what he does.)
- They are designer bags. - What do you do...
with these items?
This bag used to be...
- ivory. - Did you dye the bag?
- Yes. This bag is 10 years old. - He repairs them.
That's what it looked like originally?
- Was that the bag? - It's that bag?
- Go Eun. - That's amazing.
You know designer bags so take a closer look at them.
The bag used to be worn down.
I changed the leather, so that it looks news.
Then I dye the bag.
He is good at what he does. What about this one?
- Was that the original bag? - Did that bag turn into that?
- Was that the original bag? - You changed the colour.
- The bags must get worn out. - This is amazing.
How much do you earn for fixing one bag?
I make about 70 dollars.
- That's all it costs? - That's cheap.
Not only does he change the colours, but he also...
- fixes parts that are worn out. - That's amazing.
- He should get paid more. - I know.
- That's too cheap. - It has to be...
a reasonable price.
It shouldn't be too expensive or too cheap.
- So I offer a reasonable price... - Right.
These remind me of Lee Byung Hun's shoes.
(They look like Lee Byung Hun's shoes.)
- Even the smell. - Lee Byung Hun?
(This leather is nice.)
- Can you give me a massage? - Give him a massage.
Can you give him a massage?
It doesn't look like an arm.
Why does the boot look...
so good on your arm?
How long did it take for you to fix each bag?
- Each of these took 5 days. - Five days?
- This one took six days. - How much are these?
I only dyed the front of the boots,
- so they're 50 dollars. - They are 50 dollars?
Didn't they take six days?
- How much did you spend on them? - He did...
a very thorough job.
I know.
- Thank you for showing us. - This is impressive.
You have to acknowledge the husband's skills.
Please give him a round of applause.
That was impressive.
(I am tired of it.)
Have you thought about...
what your wife would be doing while you are working?
No, not even once.
What do you think your wife would be doing?
She must be doing what she needs to do.
What do you think that is?
She could be hanging out with her friends or eating something.
- She could be watching TV. - Doesn't that mean...
you don't care about what she does?
Yes. She would call me if there is an emergency.
Otherwise, she is fine.
Are you okay if she goes travelling for a few days?
- I am not okay with that. - Why not?
(No, I'm not okay with that.)
- Why not? - We should be together.
We should be together.
- You should be together? - But you don't spend time with her.
At least we sleep together.
Even though she wants to travel and you said you can't go...
because of your work.
- She should do what she wants. - Right.
Even if we don't travel now,
I think we can go later.
When would that be?
- Would it be 10 or 20 years later? - After you earn a specific amount?
Will it be in five years time?
My dream is to own a building.
- You want to own a building? - Yes.
- You need 2 to 3 million dollars. - I want one, too.
I think I could buy a building if I save up 2 or 3 million dollars.
Will you celebrate your anniversaries and go on vacations...
- after you have bought a building? - Yes.
- I would do it then. - That's when you'll start.
- So that's why. - But...
in order to get there, how long do you think it will take?
- About 30 years? - Maybe 10 Years?
- 10 years? - 10 years?
Do you think you can earn 3 million dollars in 10 years?
I'm not say I can earn 2 to 3 million dollars in 10 years.
I'm saying, I'll make it happen.
But can you be certain...
that she'll still be with you in 10 years time?
That's an important question.
- I agree. - She might get sick of waiting.
If I were her, I wouldn't wait.
She has to wait 10 years.
Let me ask you something. Please be honest.
What is more important, your wife or your work?
Of course my wife comes first.
I'm working so that my wife and I can live happily together.
It's only talk.
If he wants to live happily with me, he should be with me when I'm sick.
He should be thinking about me.
I was really sick two years ago.
But he didn't even come home.
- He didn't come home? - No, he didn't.
- He wouldn't even answer his phone. - Really?
Why didn't you pick up?
She was sick.
It was really late.
I was working...
and I thought she had just called to nag me to come home.
- I found out later that... - He never picked up his phone.
she was sick. So I did feel guilty.
Luckily she wasn't seriously ill.
- This is frustrating. - Being sick...
doesn't necessarily have to be serious to be sick.
How sick does she have to be for you to run to her?
If she faints, I'll run over right away.
What if that really happens?
So if she doesn't faint, you won't go to her?
What if she's bleeding and she's leaning on something.
Will you not go?
But he needs to take care of his own health, too.
- Yes. In the letter... - He went like this.
His nose is bleeding all the time.
One time, he was sweating a lot.
So we were heading home,
- and he fainted on the way. - Pardon?
We went to the emergency room and the doctor said...
that he's overworked and is suffering enteritis from stress.
So the doctor told us he needed a break.
- Did he work? - He went to work afterwards.
That's obsession.
(He went to work that day, too.)
(It wasn't a big deal.)
What is it that you want the most? There must be something.
I want to have a baby this year.
- You don't have a baby. - It's been four years and yet...
Whenever he comes home,
it's really late at night or he's too tired so he just falls asleep.
- He sleeps right away. - He doesn't kiss you?
All of my friends have kids...
and are enjoying their lives.
But I don't have a child and I'm a little lonely.
If I had a child, I would be less lonely.
- What about you? - Don't you want kids?
Don't you want kids?
- I really want a baby, too. - Okay.
- But I'm not ready yet. - For what?
Like I said before...
- You need a building first? - Yes.
- Sorry? - As for me...
I can still remember picking up that hot dog from the ground.
- I don't want my child to... - That's not important.
- I want to be prepared. - Why because of a hot dog?
- Because, now... - It's the hot dog's fault.
Why did that kid drop the hot dog?
Ma'am, were you poor when he was younger?
- Was it really difficult for you? - Couldn't you buy him a hot dog?
- Because I thought you worked hard. - But...
It wasn't that bad.
Maybe he's just greedy.
(Is he just greedy?)
Look.
You said you're planning for a kid in 10 years time.
Have you thought about your wife's age then?
- It's going to be late. - You'll be 37 or 38 years old.
Have you not thought about her?
I heard that the average age for...
- childbirth is now 32 years old. - Okay.
I'll be 37 in 10 years...
- and my wife will be 38. - Yes. that's late.
By then, the average age could be higher.
The average age for childbirth might be 40 in 10 years time.
(What is he saying?)
Okay. How old were you when you ate that hot dog?
I was in first year of middle school, so...
- 14 years old? - 14 years old?
Then if you have the baby now,
you said you will be settled down in 10 years. Right?
- Your kid will be 10 years old. - He'll be 10 years old.
As he's about to pick up a hot dog from the ground,
he can say, "Right. I have a building."
(I forgot about that.)
All right?
That's what will happen.
It's a good time to have a baby.
Yes, you should have a baby now.
But there is no guarantee...
that I'll have a building in 10 years.
So I want to have a baby after I buy a building.
- What if you never buy one. - Okay, then what about...
Why didn't you get married 10 years from now?
- He would have a building. - Yes, he would.
- You should have done that. - You'd be rich.
It's not like you're going to kiss her anyway.
(I'm mad.)
I got married because I don't like being apart.
- Yes. - I want to be with her.
- You're not a magnet. - So...
you got married to...
- be with her. - Yes.
Then you should also help satisfy her needs, too.
A marriage is something where both people should be happy.
It doesn't work when only one side is satisfied.
Because it's a relationship between two people.
- If you... - Mark her words.
(You should take it to heart.)
It feels like a current affairs programme.
She's our senior. She got married before any of us.
Actually, we're repeating the same thing over and over.
- It's the hot dog's fault. - Hot dog trauma.
Do you have anything you'd like to say for the last time?
Honey, we're a married couple. Can you be more considerate?
I wish you'd work less and take care of your health.
Let's have a baby this year.
(Let's have a baby together.)
Okay, let's start with Go Eun.
- Is it a worry? - Press the button.
So this is the button.
I think it's a worry.
I think you should take the time to think about...
- your priorities in life. - Yes, you need to do that.
- I think it's a worry, too. - Yes. Press the button.
- What about you, Yong Hwa? - I think it's a worry, too.
I think it's a worry, too.
- Really? - Yes.
- The building. - All right.
It's not a bad thing to work hard for one's family.
But he's only thinking about himself.
The thing is,
- he's not a bad person. - No, he's not.
They're both nice people.
But that little bit of indifference is making their daily life hard.
- It's frustrating. - Yes.
If you can relate to this, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
- That's it. - Stop.
- Stop! - This is...
The current winner right now...
has 176 votes.
How many votes do you think you got? Out of 200 votes.
You don't think it's a worry, right?
At most I think...
maybe 100?
- What if it's over 100... - Didn't you hear the buttons?
Will you try to change?
My goal isn't going to change.
- This is really bad. - What if she runs away?
I don't think I'm...
treating her that badly.
(Is he serious?)
You don't think she'll run away?
All right.
Say a few words to your wife.
I didn't know you were having such a hard time.
But since you already waited this long,
I'll make sure to buy a building in 10 years time.
He's really stubborn.
(Getting up)
(Is she going to throw it at him?)
(I'm sorry.)
I promised myself...
- that I wouldn't do this. - Maybe it's because you're young.
But owning a building isn't that important.
You should build a building of happiness.
I think you'll be disappointed once you own a building.
I'm curious to know how many votes they got.
I think they have a good chance of winning.
A lot of people voted for them.
All right, show us the results.
You have to get over 176 votes.
Now, the last number.
- I need a glass of water. - 179?
- Is it 179? - 179.
- Is it 199? I hope it's 199. - 179?
- 199? - It's not 199.
I hope it's 189.
- 189? - Come on.
("Find My Husband" is the new winner.)
(Why?)
- You're in first place. - Everyone thinks it's a worry.
First of all, put your shoes on.
Now, "Find My Husband" became...
the new winner.
("Find My Husband" replaces "Meat Lover".)
Because the husband has such a hard time...
He can't fight it.
So a lot of people are suffering.
Hello. I'm a working wife of eight years...
who starts the day...
with a strong kick.
"Are you really going to be like this?"
"Get up, please. Get up!"
Because of this sleepyhead, every day feels like a battle.
I know a lot of people struggle to get up in the morning.
But my husband has never woken up on his own...
during the last 36 years.
He's always late for work.
On the days that I don't wake him up,
it's hard to reach him.
"Why didn't you pick up? Were you late for work? I was worried."
"I woke up late..."
"but I wasn't late."
"I just didn't go to work."
- That's when she didn't wake him. - I guess he can't wake up.
Even on the next day,
"Honey. Where are you? Did you get to the office?"
"Where are you right now?"
"I missed work again because I was sleeping."
He's the head of the family...
and he didn't go to work for two days straight.
It was getting worse,
that I suggested he go to work to sleep.
She told him to sleep at the office.
- That's a good idea. - It's funny.
But on the day that he was sleeping at the office,
our youngest child got sick.
I called my husband,
- but he didn't pick up. - He was sleeping.
I called my brother-in-law, "Our kid is sick, please help."
I ended up calling an ambulance,
and our kid went to the emergency room.
I couldn't hold it in any longer, so I said,
"Stop sleeping and please get a hold of yourself."
"Please!" This is what she wrote.
Let's find out how bad her husband really is.
Please welcome her to the stage. Please come out!
(She has to wake her husband up every day.)
(Woo Soon Ja)
Many people have a hard time waking up in the morning.
It's a common problem for many people.
In that sense, this doesn't seem be a serious worry.
I have a good reason for coming on today.
He's been late for his work almost every day for the past eight years.
Eight years? That's how long you've been married to him.
These days, I have started to kick him to try and wake him up.
Once, I kicked him really hard.
- You kicked him really hard? - I injured his tailbone,
and he was in pain for several days.
She has to kick him to wake him up.
- Is it that hard to wake him up? - She said she kicked him hard.
Did you kick him like this?
Tell us.
Was it something like this?
(A dropkick)
- Is this what you mean? - It wasn't that dramatic.
I took a couple of steps and then kicked him.
- She took a few steps. - I kicked him in the bottom.
- Did you kick him in the bottom? - Like this?
Can you demonstrate on me?
- She'll hurt you. - It's okay.
I'll lie down here.
- Turn a bit. - Let's say he's sleeping.
Let's say my husband is sleeping in this position.
- Okay. - Please show us.
- How do you do it? - First...
- Do what you usually do. - Show us.
- Really? - Of course. Show us.
- We need to know. - We need to see it.
- Show us exactly what you did. - I stood around here.
- Let's protect him with a cushion? - Let's do that.
Kwang Hee, use the cushion. Did you start from the side?
Put it on your bottom.
- That's not it. - What are you doing?
(He's trying to protect something else.)
Fine. You can use two cushions.
- Go ahead and give him a kick. - Okay.
- Someone hold the cushion up. - It'll help us...
- to understand. - My kicks are strong.
- Just do it. - I aimed for his bottom.
Hit the cushion.
(Aiming)
(Her husband is sleeping.)
Go.
(She concentrates all her power into her foot.)
(She kicks him!)
(What made her do this?)
I kicked him like this.
(Wake up!)
(Wake up! It's morning.)
- That was strong. - Oh, my goodness.
- That was really strong. - I was surprised.
Does this wake him up?
He wakes up because it hurts.
Is he late for his work a lot?
He's supposed to be at work by 9am.
- By 9am? - Yes, but he's always late.
Sometimes, he goes to work around 11am or 12pm.
Not only that,
when he wakes up around 1am or 2am in the afternoon,
he sometimes doesn't go at all.
- He hasn't been fired yet? - Does he work for a big company?
- That doesn't make any sense. - What does he do for a living?
- He must work for a good company. - Is it owned by his friend?
Or is he the owner himself?
- That's not it. - Is he the manager?
What does he do for a living?
He works as an engineer for a small company.
- An engineer? - Yes.
Wasn't he late for dates as well?
We dated for six years.
- But you didn't know? - We never met in the morning.
- That makes sense. - So you didn't know.
No. When we got married, his mother...
said, "I'm finally free."
I didn't understand what she meant back then.
Do you understand what she meant now?
- She understands now. - Of course.
I'm having such a hard time.
To be honest, I don't understand him.
- Neither do I. - Sleeping a lot is okay.
- But he's late for work every day. - Exactly.
Also he can't wake up on his own.
- He sounds irresponsible. - I think so, too.
I don't understand him. Let's meet him first.
Hello.
He looks like someone who would sleep a lot.
He has flawless skin. It must be because he sleeps a lot.
- He has great skin. - That's true.
He really does.
Didn't you have a hard time waking up this morning?
She started waking me up around 9:30am...
but I woke up at 11am.
- This morning? - You woke up at 11am?
Yes.
- I don't understand. - Gosh.
Do you wake up late every day?
- I'm supposed to be at work by 9am. - Okay.
But I usually get there around 9:30.
Luckily, my boss understands me.
Why would he?
Also, our kids...
go to kindergarten.
My wife wants me to wake up around 7:30am,
- so that I can see them leave... - Of course.
and have breakfast with them.
But I always wake up late.
Your daughter looks angry.
- But... - I go to school not kindergarten.
She started school this year.
That's why she said she doesn't go to kindergarten.
- But at work... - I'm not a baby. I'm a student.
- We got it. - Okay.
What's your name?
- Cho Han Byul. - I see.
- Nice to meet you. - Don't be rude.
She's so cute.
Does your dad sleep a lot?
Yes.
He doesn't wake up even when I try to wake him up.
Do you wake up early?
She can't lie.
- How cute. - I do wake up early.
I always wake up before my dad.
- You do? I see. - All right.
She's cute.
- I have a question. - Yes.
How do you get away with going to work at 1pm?
When we're busy,
we sometimes work every day for three months.
Our work hours are from 9am to 9pm.
- Also, - Go on.
on some days we finish at 3am or 4am. On those days we just...
take a nap at the office and go back to work.
Do you always feel tired?
Yes, I do.
- I always feel tired. - Do you drink a lot?
- Do you? - I don't drink at all.
You don't drink at all?
- He doesn't drink or smoke. - I see.
What about gambling?
(Does he gamble?)
Some people like gambling.
If he doesn't even drink, why does he sleep so much?
Is he a workaholic, by any chance?
I don't think so.
Doesn't he work too much?
Is he interested in real estate?
Right. He has two kids.
You're raising kids even though you down own a building?
You have two kids.
- He even has two. - Exactly.
He sometimes works every day for months...
and he often finishes work late. Couldn't that excuse him?
He works a lot.
I know it's hard for him,
but I work, too.
I work at a nursing home.
(She works as a nurse.)
- Do you work at a nursing home? - I have a very irregular schedule.
- That must be hard. - I'm exhausted from my work, too.
When I get home after taking care of patients all day,
it feels like I have another patient waiting for me at home, too.
- That makes sense. - Right.
I hate it.
You have to look after him, too.
What was it like when you were a student?
My mother woke me up every day.
She makes sure I wake up.
I was never absent from school.
- What about in the army? - It must have been hard for her.
No one wakes you up in the army.
I worked in the civil service instead.
His mother had to wake him up during that time, too.
- His mother woke him up. - That's right.
That's why she was so happy to be relieved.
You could turn on an alarm clock.
Doesn't that help?
Once, I even set three alarm clocks.
- You did try. - But I don't hear them going off.
Did you ignore them?
I just couldn't hear anything.
Have you tried anything else...
- apart from alarm clocks? - To wake up early,
I once went to bed around 6am or 7pm.
But I woke up late all the same.
- You went to bed around 6pm. - That's incredible.
- When did you wake up? - I'm just curious...
I woke up around 8am.
How long did you sleep when you slept longest?
I once slept for two days.
Without waking up?
Doesn't your back hurt?
When it does,
- Do you wake up? - I change positions.
He turns over.
- And goes back to sleep. - Don't you get hungry?
Once I fall asleep,
I don't wake up.
I just change positions.
- Don't you go to the bathroom? - Right.
I don't eat anything so I don't have to go.
Do you try to let out everything before going to bed?
Not particularly.
Mothers usually nag or beg their children...
to wake up.
- But fathers are usually strict. - He would've been scolded.
- They're not as patient. - They scold you.
Has your father ever scolded you for sleeping too much?
To wake me up,
he once poured cold water over me.
- Really? - While you were sleeping?
Did he pour water? I understand him.
- When was it? - I was in middle school.
(He has woken up late for 36 years.)
(It's impossible to wake him up.)
(Please, Dad.)
I have a question.
Are you weak-willed?
I definitely lack willpower when it comes to sleep.
But when it comes to work,
I am responsible and hard-working.
It only applies to sleep.
That's why, even though I'm late for work often.
- They let you get away with it. - They don't mind.
Has there been a time when you got in trouble...
because he didn't wake up...
- in time? - Was there ever a time like that?
We sometimes have to work at night.
And our kids have to go to school by 8am or 9am.
But my husband never wakes up in time,
so both my mother and my mother-in-law...
had to help us.
- Do they come to your house? - Yes.
One day, he was sleeping with the door locked.
My mother came...
to send the kids to school.
But he wouldn't pick up his cell phone...
or the phone at home.
So she had to ask my parents-in-law...
and brother-in-law for help.
He finally woke up when they all banged on the door.
The kids had to go to school without any breakfast.
Do you remember that day?
- Yes, I do. - So what happened?
Because the door was locked,
my father started kicking the door.
It took an hour before I woke up.
You didn't hear him kicking the door?
No, I didn't.
His family must be frustrated.
We have his brother with us today.
- Hello. - Hello.
- He looks like his brother. - They look alike.
What was your brother like before he got married?
My mother had to wake him up every day.
On a good day, it would take around 30 minutes.
On a bad day,
it took a few hours to wake him up.
It was really hard on my mother.
That's why my mum felt like she was liberated.
I still don't understand.
When was the worst?
I was getting ready for work at 7:40am when I got a call from her.
She sounded urgent. Their younger child was low on sugar...
and had cold sweats with fever.
The child was losing consciousness.
But my brother wouldn't pick up his phone.
While I was on my way to work, I asked to take off the morning.
Although she's a nurse,
she was still very surprised.
Of course, if the child is sick.
- That's right. - She was losing her mind.
So we called 911,
- and went to the hospital. - I see.
You must have been so scared.
- My brain went blank. - Right?
- Even think about it now... - It still makes her sad.
You can't think straight in situations like that.
How sick was the child?
The lips were turning blue.
There were cold sweats all over the body.
I felt that it was signs of low sugar and found some candy.
- And I asked his help to call 911. - To call the emergency.
And when we got to the hospital,
they told me I should give the child some porridge and see.
But since it's just me, I had to ask his brother for help.
So he went to buy the porridge. He did what a father should have.
So when the father saw the child,
it was after things got better?
Yes. Blood sugar was back up, and everything was back to normal.
We were just waiting for the results.
- Where were you then? - Yes.
I was working.
I didn't sleep. I was working overnight.
I was working and didn't know my phone was ringing.
Working after an all-nighter.
Don't you leave your phone beside you when you work?
I do, but I didn't know.
Even if you didn't see the call coming right away,
did you see later that you had a missed call?
I called then...
and ran to the hospital.
Are you sure you weren't sleeping?
- No, I wasn't sleeping. - But...
If this is a one-time thing, it's understandable...
My first and second child...
had to visit the doctors on a regular basis for a while.
I was tired after work.
So I asked my husband to take her to the doctor.
Although he's always late for work,
when I ask him for something he suddenly becomes professional.
He says he has work and asks me to go instead, but I can't drive.
- I have to take a bus and transfer. - That sounds hard.
There were many times I had to take the kids that way.
I was upset.
Of course you would be upset.
- Why did you do that? - That's because...
I take the kids 7 to 8 times out of 10 to the doctor.
I think she has a misunderstanding.
What?
Did you ask when it was urgent?
But usually when a husband and wife have different statements,
it's the wife that's right.
- That's true. - I agree.
I agree as well.
(We all agree.)
Is it the state where you're not really up...
but you're half up and half sleeping...
Is it that fuzzy feeling you like?
No, I just can't get up. My body hurts.
- It hurts? - Yes.
I get a lot of stress at work.
- So I tend to sleep crouched. - I see.
So when I wake up, my whole body aches and hurts.
Then why did you sleep in so much when you were in middle school?
Maybe because I was young?
- What about high school? - It's a habit.
- It's definitely a habit. - Even at work,
they noticed how stressed and tired he was.
So they told him he could go home early at around 9pm.
And he's also off on weekends.
But he played games until 3am last night.
- Games? - He plays games?
(If he's so tired, why is he playing games all night?)
Is it the game that starts with "L"?
Does he help around the house?
No, I do everything.
Laundry, cleaning... He's always so tired,
so I didn't want to burden him. So I'm doing it all.
But aching and hurting...
in the morning is...
something everyone is suffering from.
No one wakes up and says, "That was great!" It's same with me.
- It aches, but I wake up. - That's right.
- I don't think you're desperate. - Right.
You only think of your office as your work.
The children and housework don't seem like your responsibility.
- Right. - That's my opinion.
What do you think about her opinion?
- I'm sure it's partially a habit. - Of course.
- It's a habit. - I'm aware of it.
Then shouldn't you try and show some effort?
- You should. - But you played games until 3am?
- I thought you were sick. - Especially when it hurts you.
Well...
- Isn't it because of the games? - Look up and talk to us.
- I don't drink. - No. And you don't smoke.
My colleagues end up drinking 3 or 4 days a week...
because the work is so hard.
I don't drink or smoke, so the stress I get from work...
is relieved through games.
- Then your drinking colleagues... - Yes.
They must be tired the next day.
- Yes. - But they're not late for work.
Well, people are different.
Most people are like that, but I think I'm different.
- But you don't drink. - You're still late though.
- Yes. - It doesn't make sense.
Then what about your wife? How does she relieve her stress?
- The kick. - She kicks him.
(Sighing)
(We're really curious why he can't get up.)
Are you sure you're not sick?
(Do you have any health issues?)
He's not, but the talk might want him to make something up.
- He's hesitating. - I agree.
- He's hesitating. - He might cry.
I even had psychotherapy...
- from the stress I got at work. - Did you?
Then did you take pills for depression?
I took some for a while. There were two times...
when I fainted at work.
So I went to the emergency too.
He fainted three times since we got married.
I went to the emergency twice in the middle of the night.
After putting the kids to sleep.
- You went twice? - And the kids were alone?
Yes. I had to ask his brother or his mum for help.
What a good brother-in-law.
I'm so thankful to my brother-in-law.
- Yes. - Do you depend more on him?
No, it's not that bad.
What are you trying to do?
(Don't make things weird.)
I think you probably didn't realise that your wife...
was having a hard enough time to send her story to the show, right?
- I knew. I always knew. - I see.
And she even mentioned divorce a few times because of it.
- She did? - My goodness.
She was so upset.
But I don't plan on getting a divorce.
But she does.
She's thinking about it. Not you.
- He won't have someone to wake him. - Who will wake you up then?
Because I have a hard time controlling myself,
my wife gets frustrated and tends to talk more strongly.
But if she mentioned divorce,
I think you should consider the situation more seriously.
- But... - But he's not psyched.
- Even with him and... - "We won't get a divorce."
It won't happen because he can't wake up for court.
(He won't be able to wake up to sign the papers.)
This is kind of interesting.
He's similar to the first husband who's not threatened by divorce.
What do you think about this couple?
- Do you think it's a worry? - What do you think?
- Everything is a mess due to sleep. - Do you understand him?
To be honest, I was thinking of work and wasn't listening to the story.
- You were thinking of work? - You weren't listening?
- No. - What were you thinking?
- Wow, he's impossible. - Just what I have to do.
- Did you not hear anything? - I was just thinking.
- He was thinking of buildings. - I heard he sleeps a lot...
You didn't hear anything else?
- He's just not interested. - What about work?
What exactly were you thinking about work?
The three things I brought earlier. I have to pack and send them.
And I have to take photos of the new products...
- and work on them. - That's crazy.
Since you weren't listening, let me sum it up for you.
He sleeps a lot, so the wife had a really hard time.
She even considered divorce.
Can you divorce someone because of sleep?
He wasn't listening, so he has no idea!
- He doesn't know. - He needs to be woken up...
for two hours every day, and he even misses work.
He's out of reach when kids are sick and doesn't wake up when kicked.
- I see. - It's been ongoing for eight years.
But aren't they still living together because it's not that bad?
They are, but she wants to get divorced.
Let's just stop it there.
(Forget it.)
That's so annoying.
He was only thinking of his work.
What he said has a bit of truth to it.
If you hear it in passing, you would think it's ridiculous...
to divorce because of sleep. It's hard to imagine it.
But the person involved would think otherwise.
- This is a big worry, too. - Yes.
Why don't you say a few words to your husband?
Honey.
It's a short time when the children are growing up.
Since you come home late after they're in bed,
it would be nice for you to talk to them in the morning...
while they eat before going to school.
And I wish you would sleep before 12am, instead of playing games.
- Yes. - All right.
Let's start with Kwang Hee.
- Is it a worry or not? - I think it's a worry.
He looks like a nice man, but it's a worry.
- Yong Hwa. - I think it's a worry too.
The thing about sleep is,
- you can wake up if you want to. - That's right.
I think you need professional help. Whether it's treatment...
or exercise, I think it's...
something you can work out.
Because I'm hopeful, I'm going to say that it's not a worry.
- In the wife's point of view, - You think it's a worry?
- it's a worry. - Yes, it's a worry.
If you think the wife who suffered for eight years...
without anyone to talk to has a worry,
please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- Wow, that's a lot. - A lot of people are pressing.
- And 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - And 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
- That's it. - Stop.
What I'm suddenly curious about is...
You must have had many times when you were upset.
But you got over it time and again.
Is there something your husband does to make you feel better?
Could it be his sleeping face?
(Does seeing him sleeping make you feel better?)
- He's kind. - Sorry?
- He's kind. - He does look kind.
And when he smiles big at me, it makes me happy.
- A big smile. - Yes.
- It's not much. - Smile for her.
That's the smile.
He smiles very shyly.
- He looks innocent when he smiles. - All right.
Will her story get more than 179 votes?
Show us the result.
(The result)
Let's see the last digit.
- My goodness. - What?
They could be tied.
- It could be. - It is possible.
- Many people pressed the button. - No way.
- Could it be 179? - 119?
It is still a high score.
(Eliminated)
(Survived)
"I Can't Stand it!"
It's a story from a man in his 20s.
Hello. My peaceful life...
went into the gutter after meeting this person.
I first met him at a departmental party at the university.
I am a loner, I am a loner
"You can sing pretty well."
"My name is Lee Sang Eon."
"I am getting good vibes from you."
"We should form a band together. What do you think?"
"I don't know."
"I guess it could be fun."
"You have agreed to it, right?"
- "From today on, we are bandmates." - He decided everything on his own.
Thanks to his unbelievable drive,
I became a main vocalist...
despite not knowing anything about the band.
(He became the main vocalist.)
"In my opinion,"
"we need a hideout..."
"for the band to be successful."
This happened few days later. "Everyone,"
"we have a hideout now."
"It was incredibly difficult, but I got it at a cheap price."
"To pay for deposit, repair, furniture and other things,"
"I will need 2,000 dollars from each one of you."
(I will need 2,000 dollars from each one of you.)
I felt like I have been conned right under my nose.
I had to give that money to him.
This happened next. "I heard you were introduced to a girl."
I said, "She is not my type."
Then he said, "I will help your relationship move forward."
Despite my protests, he made sure...
that the relationship became official.
- What? - That's unbelievable.
- Because of him? - Yes.
He acts as if my life is his own.
Please stop my friend from jumping to conclusions.
(Please stop my friend from jumping to conclusions.)
There are people who make decisions as he or she pleases.
Some people are overly driven.
I know. Let's invite to the stage the man whose worry involves...
an overly driven friend of his. Please come on out.
(Who is the man whose worry involves an overly driven friend?)
(Kim Jung Seon)
(He leisurely slides down.)
He seems very relaxed.
- Kim Jung Seon. - Yes.
Are you still going out with the girl in your story?
- You got trapped in a relationship. - That's right.
We broke up after a week.
- What happened? - The girl was not my type,
but she suddenly sent me a message that read, "Be my boyfriend."
I told my friend, "I don't know what to do."
He took my phone...
and sent a reply that read, "Okay."
Thanks to him, she and I became a couple.
I became the bad guy when I broke up with her a week later.
You also became the main vocalist of a band overnight.
- I take it that you are talented. - You must be a good singer.
- Would you sing us a song? - All right.
We will judge you.
Since we are singers,
- we can judge your singing skills. - Thank you.
- I have good ears, you know.
- Do you have good ears? - That's right. They are open.
It seems like your mouth isn't as good.
(Gosh)
It happens.
Without tact, I let you go that day
Without tact, I say that it's all in vain
(I have mixed feelings.)
It's all in vain.
I don't think he is good enough to be in a band.
- He was all right. - Ask Kwang Hee for an assessment.
Kwang Hee, what did you think?
He is as good as me.
- Thank you. - He is exactly as good as me.
For what other things is he driven?
Tell us.
We once went to the bath house.
- It was an outdoor bath house... - I see.
and we were out in the open.
My friend said, "It will be nice to go to a Japanese onsen."
So I answered, "That will be nice."
A week later, we ended up going to Japan.
- He is so fast. - That is quite a feat.
He bought the tickets right away.
I think he is cool.
Cool? He is the source of my worry.
- I think he is cool. - Who planned for the trip?
- My friend did. - Isn't that nice?
- He did them a favour. - I would love that.
- It sounds really nice. - Hear me out.
I am guessing everyone had to chip in for the trip.
Usually, he pays for everything on his own...
and asks us to pay him back later.
- You have no choice but to pay him. - Right.
- You shouldn't do that. - What happens if you don't?
- What?
I have never done that.
You should refuse to go on a trip.
It's a waste of money if I can't cancel the reservation.
Don't you think that is your friend's problem?
(Don't you think that is your friend's problem?)
(You are right.)
He is looking at me like, "You are right."
Jung Seon is nice.
His decisions cut back on my free time...
and I can't help but be wary of what will happen next.
- I would be wary, too. - There is a variety to his impulse.
It's time to meet the friend in question.
Jung Seon's friend, where are you?
It's the one in black shirt.
That's him.
How does it feel to know that your friend is on Hello...
because of you?
To be honest, I don't think it's a worry.
Everyone says that. The last time someone said that, the story won.
You have a point,
but I really don't think it's a worry.
My father taught me only swindlers are all talk and no action,
so I decided to keep my words no matter what.
If I say I will stop smoking, I follow through.
- That's good. - Yes.
- He is cool. - Seriously.
While he is cool, I understand Jung Seon's position.
How the trip to Japan came to be surprised us the most.
- A trip requires careful planning. - Did you cajole your friends...
because you wanted to go to Japan?
That's not true.
- I asked him if he wants to go. - Okay.
My friend answered, "Sure."
Why don't you re-enact the conversation that took place?
Do you want to go to a Japanese onsen?
Onsen? That will be nice.
- Let's go. I am serious. - Sure.
- You agreed to go! - You agreed to go!
- You agreed to go. - If you didn't want to go,
you should have said, "I am not going."
You didn't say, "Let me think about it." You said, "Sure."
That means you agreed to go.
I feel like a part has been omitted from the conversation.
They probably talked about Japanese onsen.
"I heard women and men share the same bath."
You talked about something along the line, right?
(You talked about something along the line, right?)
There was more.
I knew it.
To be honest, you are right.
(Laughing)
How did you coax him into going?
You are incredible.
Did you go to mixed baths?
No, there were only family baths. We went to the wrong onsen.
- Family baths? - They went to the wrong onsen.
"We went to the wrong onsen."
- Was it only you and Jung Seon? - Yes.
Personally, I would love to have a friend like him.
- Right? - It wouldn't be half bad.
- No. - I would love a friend...
- who executes a plan for me. - It will be convenient.
You may think it is convenient to have a friend execute a plan.
However, I think he should ask me first.
- He did ask you. - He did ask you.
- You answered, "Sure." - I know.
The original deal was a mixed bath.
So you are mad because of that?
That's not true.
- His friend... - You need to watch what you say.
- He is digging himself into a hole. - Seriously.
I think I understand his thought process.
We need to hear from another friend. It seems like Jung Seon is confused.
Let's hear from another friend.
He didn't explain himself well because he was nervous.
Please give us the full story.
In a normal conversation,
one asks, "Shall we do this?" and the other answers, "Okay."
It seems like he never learned it.
- My goodness. - "He never learned it."
He doesn't ask, "Shall we do this?"
He asks, "Would it be nice to do this?"
When someone answers, "That sounds nice",
he takes it as a positive answer to follow his plan.
- He asks vague questions. - Then he executes the plan.
(He executes the plan right away when someone expresses interest.)
I will tell you what happened last October.
He asked, "Wouldn't it be fun to have a hideout?"
- A hideout. - Yes.
So I answered, "It would be fun."
Two days later, he showed me a picture and said,
"This will be our hideout from now on."
(This will be our hideout from now on.)
He then talked about the cost of repair,
- The cost of repair? - furniture, TV and entertainment.
He wanted everything.
He collected 2,000 dollars each from the one wearing a cap and me.
(Give me 2,000 dollars each.)
What did you do?
- I gave him the money. - You did?
- Where did you get the money from? - Where did the money come from?
For a student, 2,000 dollars is not a small amount.
The three of us had a job related to internet.
Being the manager,
my friend was in charge of our salaries.
What did he do?
I said, "Why didn't I get paid this month?"
He said, "You used the money for a hideout, remember?"
- He has serious business skills. - I know.
I paid more than 2,000 dollars.
- Really? - The total was 6,000 dollars,
and I paid 2,700 dollars...
while they paid 1,700 dollars each.
- I see. - He is an honest man.
- When you revealed the plan, - This is complicated.
did your friends say, "Let's see it done"?
(What is the truth behind this complicated worry?)
Let's first see a picture of the hideout...
- that cost 6,000 dollars. - All right.
- Do you have a picture? - Let's see the picture we prepared.
(The luxurious hideout Jung Seon's friend insisted on)
What is that? That is not a hideout.
- What is that? - The place is empty.
- It's quite big. - It's big.
- Why is it so big?
(It's hard to believe that this place cost 6,000 dollars.)
The place is huge.
- Is this before the construction? - It has to be.
Did you take this picture right before moving out?
(It's after the construction.)
Yes.
We heard that it's a recent picture.
The place lacks class.
It will improve.
I have been too busy to tidy up the place...
and I gave the furniture away to a friend.
How much was the deposit?
I paid 1,500 dollars for a deposit.
- You paid 1,500 dollars. - Yes.
- What about the rest of the money? - What did you spend it on?
What did you spend it on?
- The deposit was 1,500 dollars. - It went into interior design.
You said earlier...
that the three of you collected money for this hideout,
- yet you gave the furniture away. - You gave it to your friend.
Did you tell your friends in advance?
- Yes. - Their money went into it, too.
- Yes. - Did you get their permission?
(He is ridiculous.)
Let's hear from another friend.
He looks bewildered.
It has been half a year since we had a hideout,
but we have only used it about five times.
When Sang Eon's friend got married,
he decided to give away the furniture and notified us later.
- He notified his friends later. - He gave away the TV and such.
What else did you give away?
I gave my friend TV, sofa, desk, chairs,
- air heater and cushions. - He gave away everything.
- That's why the place looks... - Yes.
empty and shabby.
Your friends' money was spent in the furniture, too.
After paying the deposit, on what did you spend the rest of the money?
- Let me see. - It's important information.
- Give us a detailed list. - I have the information here.
I am glad you have it.
Fixing the pipes cost 1,500 dollars.
Paint cost 400 dollars.
A sofa cost 400 dollars,
- Sofa. - refrigerators cost 300 dollars,
- a desk cost 1,500 dollars... - He will make a good businessman.
and linoleum flooring cost 200 dollars.
It was a good deal. Five chairs cost 1,500 dollars.
You saw a big painting earlier, yes? It cost about 3,000 dollars.
- The painting did? - Yes.
- My goodness. - I wondered where it came from.
What an expensive painting.
(It's the last surviving object of dignity in the hideout.)
Sang Eon's friends seem flustered by the picture of their hideout.
When he said that he is giving away furniture,
I thought he would only give away a few pieces.
I didn't realise that he would give away everything.
I don't understand why you let this happen.
You need to be more firm.
- You are not very good at that. - He doesn't make...
his opinion clear.
Watch me. I will teach you how to refuse his requests.
- I will teach you how to refuse. - Let's see it.
- Give it a go. - You can start with an onsen trip.
- Re-enact the conversation. - Hey,
do you like Japan?
- I do. - Really?
Do you like onsen?
- I do. - Really?
Okay. Give me a second.
- Then he buys the tickets. - For goodness' sake.
(Kwang Hee, I reserved the tickets.)
Hey!
Kwang Hee has fallen for his trick.
This is unbelievable.
- He tricked Kwang Hee. - I understand you now.
He understands Jung Seon now.
There is no way to stop him.
My goodness.
- Wait a minute. - He tricked me!
This is the problem.
- That was incredible. - Yong Hwa, give it a go.
Let this one be about the hideout. Yong Hwa, make sure you refuse.
Did you watch "A Gentleman's Dignity" yesterday?
Yes, I did.
Didn't it look amazing...
when Jang Dong Gun was hanging out with his friends?
- Yes. - What did you think?
Look him in the eye.
- It looked nice. - Right?
The idea of having a hideout...
is appealing, don't you think?
Wouldn't you agree?
It's appealing.
- It would be nice. - Right?
- Yes.
Okay. Give me a moment.
This is how he does it.
- Did I fail? - You failed.
You failed to stop him.
This is how he does it.
You don't get a chance to stop him.
- Seriously. - It would be impossible.
The demonstrations helped us understand Jung Seon.
There is no way to stop him.
That's his trick.
What was the most absurd incident?
He executes plans he has for my future.
- Your future? - Your future?
A few years ago, he did volunteer works in Indonesia.
He told me that it was great.
I answered, "I think it would be fun to study abroad."
The next day, he got letters of recommendation...
from the dean and my professors,
telling them how much I want to study abroad in Indonesia.
(He got letters of recommendation.)
Did he really get you letters of recommendation?
- How did he do that? - Really?
- My goodness. - Moreover, he booked me...
- a flight to Indonesia. - How incredible.
- He booked you a flight. - Yes.
- That's unbelievable. - He is cool.
Do you want to be a manager?
- That's a good idea. - He would make a good manager.
You can use your drive for me.
- What did you do? - I couldn't go to Indonesia,
so I told my professors that I didn't mean what I said...
and got scolded for their troubles. As for the plane ticket,
- I paid him the money. - You paid him the money.
It's wrong for you to decide your friend's plan to study abroad.
- It's unbelievable. - After a month of volunteering,
I told Jung Seon that I had a lot of fun.
Both of them reacted favourably to the idea,
so I scouted for the university and the house...
in Indonesia for them.
- My goodness. - I was so upset...
- when they changed their minds. - Did your friends agree to go?
Yes, they implied it.
We should let his friend talk. Did you tell him that you will go?
- I didn't. - Sang Eon tells us that you did.
He gave us a lengthy explanation...
about how studying abroad will help us in the future.
It would be rude to say, "I still don't want to go."
- I said, "It would be nice to go." - "It would be nice to go."
- Yes. - "That's a good idea."
That's what I said.
- I see. - Think about the previous incident.
He persuaded Jung Seon to go on an onsen trip with him...
with talks about mixed baths.
- You are right. - That's why Jung Seon agreed to go.
I sense an omitted part of the story here, too.
He is right, isn't he?
- He is right, isn't he? - Sang Eon has a girlfriend...
- in Indonesia. - Sang Eon does?
- He has a girlfriend there. - Yes.
- He has a girlfriend in Indonesia. - She has someone important...
- in Indonesia. - That's right.
She is a woman of importance to Sang Eon.
"A woman of importance"?
It sounds like a line from a poem.
Was it because of her that you wanted to study abroad?
- "A woman of importance." - I see...
- that he really wanted to go. - She was one of the reasons.
- That's right.
But it was primarily for my studies.
Did you meet her the last time you were there?
Yes, I met her when I was in Indonesia for a month.
- That's why he loved it there. - A month felt too short for him.
What plans did you execute for her?
- He is incredible. - What did you do for her?
- I am sure you have done something. - Well,
she told me that she wants us to study at the same university.
So I said, "Okay, I will ask my friends when I return to Korea."
It has been your plan all along to take them to Indonesia.
(He used us for his love.)
(I am sorry.)
Is it possible to get letters of recommendation for friends?
No, it isn't.
(No, it isn't.)
- How did you do it? - I lied about having gotten them.
- You lied to Jung Seon. - That's right.
Did you think it would be possible?
Judging from his past actions, I thought it might be.
- You thought it might be possible. - Yes.
Had you really booked a flight for him?
- Be honest. - I will be honest.
Yes, be honest.
- I had not. - What?
I thought...
(Having booked a flight was a lie, too.)
(What?)
I thought it was necessary to make him go to Indonesia.
Jung Seon said earlier that he paid you back.
- Was that an exaggeration? - He said he paid you back.
The cancellation fee usually doesn't cost much.
I told them that it cost 100 dollars to cancel the flight...
and asked them to give me 70 dollars.
- You made them pay 70 dollars. - Your friends had no idea.
- Did you find out about it now? - Yes.
- He looks shocked. - I did get money from them,
but I paid for their dinners and such...
- when we hung out. - He is rolling up his sleeves.
- Why do you look shocked? - Pardon?
- He rolled up his sleeves. - Why do you look shocked?
It's just that...
- What shocked you the most? - He had never booked a flight.
I had no clue.
The plot twist matches that of "The Sixth Sense".
- My goodness. - Yes.
Did he really lie to us?
- He admitted that he lied. - He has lied to you.
He never booked a ticket.
He never got you letters of recommendation.
You shouldn't have tricked your friends.
I am sure a lot of people are thinking,
"He should stop being friends with Sang Eon."
- That's right. - That's a normal reaction.
- I know. - I hate how absurdly driven he is,
- but he is a good friend. - He is fun to hang out with, right?
- I can see that. - He is fun to hang out with.
He is loyal.
It seems that way.
He is fiercely loyal...
and he is good to my parents.
One time, he came to my house...
when it was my mother's birthday.
I told him that it's not necessary,
but he brought an expensive set of red ginseng.
Men in their 20s usually can't afford such gifts.
- I know. - Sir.
Sang Eon visits when it's the birthday of his friend's mother.
You should learn from him.
Take this opportunity to say what you want to say to him.
I hope you would stop doing things as you please.
Communication will do wonders for our friendship,
so let's talk to each other before making a decision.
All right.
Let's have a vote.
- I don't think it's a worry. - All right.
If Sang Eon can learn to respect his friends' decisions,
- his drive will be his asset. - All right.
Communicate with your friends.
Many young people suffer from inability to make a decision.
You are right.
I think honing his habits will be good for him.
- Thus, I don't think it's a worry. - Okay.
Let's hear from those who have experienced Sang Eon's tactics.
Yong Hwa, you can go first.
I don't think it's a worry.
I can't help but marvel at...
how he can be so driven at a young age.
Judge the story from Jung Seon's perspective.
- He has problems, too. - He is indecisive.
- Seriously.
- He doesn't think it's a worry. - Kwang Hee, it's your turn.
He should apply to become a manager at my agency.
- What? - Thank you, but I must decline.
Seriously? Are you refusing the offer?
He refused Kwang Hee's offer.
- He refused Kwang Hee's offer. - He is good at refusing.
- Take this.
I say it's not a worry.
If you think it's a worry,
please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
- Not many people voted. - Time's up.
It will get less than 100 votes.
Sang Eon, say what you want to say to Jung Seon.
Go ahead.
I want to be a friend who remains by your side...
whether you are stressed out or sad.
- He is cool. - I see that I was too forward...
judging from the way you decided to be on this show.
I will try to be less presumptuous,
but when you are going through hard times,
- I will always stay by your side. - He's a great speaker.
Let's see how many votes the story got.
I don't think many people pressed the button.
Let's see the result.
(The result)
- Is it a two-digit number? - Is it?
- Is it a three-digit number? - Did it get over 100 votes?
(Will the story garner more votes than "Find My Husband"?)
Gosh, it's 37.
I knew it.
Thank you for visiting the show.
(Eliminated)
Thus, "Find My Husband" takes a win. Congratulations.
We will give the winner a 1,000-dollar gift certificate.
Until the day we are all worry-free,
Hello will continue to counsel you.
- Thank you. - Thank you.
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